In the book authorized by P. Bunny Wilson, "Knights in  Shining Armor - Discovering Your Lifelong Love," she challenges singles not to date for six months.  "Most singles want to honeymoon with a spouse without first having honeymooned with God.  And He is a jealous god," states Bunny.  "Of course, His jealousy is not evil; it is a genuine passion to fellowship with His creation," she continues.

In November 1999, 47 singles who had completed their six months joined Bunny on a one week cruise to the Caribbean.  They came from across the nation, strangers in the beginning, great friends by the end.   Frank, Bunny's husband, and Michelle Mc Kinney-Hammond, were the other two speakers.

There are thousands of singles nationwide who have completed their six month commitment.  Perhaps it's you.  If so, log on and tell us your experience.  By doing so, you give Bunny permission to use your testimony in future publications.

Now a thought from Bunny:

Single ladies, keep in mind the man you marry will not only be the daddy of your children, he will also be the daddy of your vision.  What do you feel God calling you to do in life?  The Bible instructs the wife to yield (submit) to her husband's final decision, which means if he is not asking you to do something immoral or if it is not abusive, you are called to submit (epi sidd).  Remember that what you're working on in your single life can be reversed by your future husband.  Slow down.  Make sure the person you select is supportive in your pursuits and encouraging in your aspirations.  This is all a part of the interview process when dating.

Single gentlemen, you are going to be the 'daddy of your future wife's vision'.  What are you going to do to prepare to lead?  Remember, "a man who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord." God said it was not good for you to be alone.  But that takes preparation.  Don't wait until you're married to get training.  Study God's Word for instructions on how to be an excellent husband.  I would also like to recommend, "Unmasking the Lone Ranger" written by my husband Frank Wilson